I'm Rosie Kay, and I teach people how to navigate the messy, beautiful reality of relationships—and I do it differently.
The truth is, I learned everything I now teach my clients—from managing conflict to building unshakeable confidence—through a rather unorthodox education. For years, I immersed myself in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy (ENM).
Here’s the kicker: this involvement first inspired me to start the blog, ThisKindAGirl (thiskindagirl.co.uk). It was through the blog that I began communicating with thousands of people and realized that the struggle was far wider than just the ENM world. People were suffering unnecessarily across all dynamics, and I felt compelled to do more. This realization drove me to become a trained relationship coach.
The core difficulties I witnessed—Insecurity, Jealousy, Self-Comparison, and Fear—gave me an incredibly strong foundation. Now, I clearly see that my help is needed on a massive scale:
Whether I’m coaching singles, women, or couples in monogamous or non-monogamous settings, the internal roadblocks are always the same.
My mission is to empower people to let go of the fear and insecurity holding them back, so they can build confident, courageous, and deeply connected relationships—no matter the dynamic.
I don't offer generic advice.
My unique, experienced-backed approach allows me to bypass surface arguments and guide you to adopt the High-Value Mindset—asserting that your worth is non-negotiable.
This powerful approach is why my insights have been featured across multiple media platforms, including appearances on TV and popular podcasts, and contributions to various magazines and newspapers.
If you're ready to stop competing, stop comparing, and start truly connecting with confidence, you're in the right place. Let's start building the secure, fearless life you deserve.